blog#17 hooks

First of all hook had a wonderful point that she point out. This points I never though about it and I have hard it many times. This point was how many people interpret the word feminism basically many people misinterpret the meaning of this word. Many people thought that feminism is a movement that is against men also that there is no such thing as a benefit from feminism. In other word people understood that this movement it is going to benefit women and men will be controlled women. Therefore many people even today still think that feminism is wrong and it has no benefit at all. But the truth is that feminism I think it has a lot of benefits for men and women. Feminism goals were and still to have a society that all individuals in that society are threaded equals no matter if you are a men or women and also it does not matter what color you have. Also feminism wants to create a society where men and women support each other and complete one another. Therefore I think that is much better then living in a society that is more divided do not respects one another. At a feminist society equality rule and that what makes a society a fair and most of human want to be treated equally. Also from there I think the only reason for people not to believe in feminism or support it is that they miss understands the logic behind it.

The difference between the men and women regard relationship is different due to the early care or relationship between the parents and children. As I understand from the reading the early relation between the mom and the child determent how each person reacts or regards relationships. Also a person can conclude from the reading that girls rise on a way where they are close to their mothers more then their fathers. Therefore girls learn different views about relationships. Basically women respect and appreciate relationships then men, so girls learn that from their mom. Unlike women, men are not too involved with their mothers instead boy become more involved with their fathers. From that men learn how to control and have to be always the best or the one how runs things. For boys and men, separation and individuation are critically tied to gender identity since separation from the mothers is essential for the development of masculinity (Gilligan804). As a result from that men end up learning most of the things about life from their fathers. Where in the other hand girls learn most of thing about life from their moms. Thus males tend to have difficulty with relationships, while females tend to have problem with individuation (gilligan804). In other words, we can say most of the values that we learn are from our parents. So if you are a boy you guide was your dad for most of the cases. And on the other hand if you are a girl you learn most of thing from your mom.


Works Cited
Gilligan, Carol. "Womans Place in Man's Life Cycle." A World of Ideas: Essential Readings for College Writers. Ed. Lee A. Jacobus. 7th ed. New York: Bedford/St. Martins, 2006. pp. 801-817